So after what seemed like a very long day today I was completely blind sided but my 10 year old. While trying to get the school year back on it's scheduled feet, I have washed and done the dishes Monday and Tuesday night mostly by myself. Tuesday night I had a little bit more help. That being said, last night we were done eating by 6 so I told the kids that I wasn't going to do dishes, that I had done them the last two nights. "Oh, you're so hard done by." said Aurora. I'm not sure what my face looked but I know how I felt inside. I was first very aghast and then I started to retaliate and then I just said I can't have this discussion right now and got up and left the kitchen. Now in the past I may have gotten very hot under the collar but last night I was hurt. Very very hurt. On Tuesday night I had mentioned, whilst doing the dishes with Aurora and Rayann, that carrying a baby is very difficult it's hard on the body and makes it hard to do other t